one. given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?rainbow rowell.
two. would you like to be famous? in what way? i want to write one book that resonates with at least one person. if it takes being famous for that to happen, so be it.
three. before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? why? it depends on the situation; usually no, but i’ve that whole can’t-talk-to-people thing, so…
four. what would constitute a perfect day for you? right now, i’d be content with a day where i’m not telling myself god, you’re ugly first thing in the morning or look at how fat you’ve gotten; it’s disgusting while i’m getting dressed or you’re so stupid while i’m at work. if i could have a day where there’s no hate in it–from within or without–that’d be a beautiful thing.
five. when did you last sing to yourself? to someone else? today. i can’t remember.
six. if you were able to live to the age of ninety and retain either the mind or body of a thirty-year-old for the last sixty years of your life, which would you want? the body. i’m perfectly fine with getting alzheimer’s. but not being able to walk would suck. i know, because i’ve had knee reconstructive surgeries. that pain’s a bitch.
seven. do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? nope.
eight. for what in your life do you feel most grateful? i didn’t have to watch alcoholism take my brother over a period of several decades. it was quick. and a few months before he’d died, i’d found a way to love him again; i hadn’t been able to do that for a long time.
nine.if you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? we wouldn’t’ve moved so much.
ten. if you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? affability.
eleven. a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? that a man could love me; that i could love him.
twelve. is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? why haven’t you done it? writing this stupid book i’ve been screwing with since college. because it’s not an easy thing to do.
thirteen. what is the greatest accomplishment of your life? i’m still here.
fourteen. what do you value most in a friendship? humor.
fifteen. what is your most treasured memory? christmas eve morning, when my older brother came home after a binge that nearly killed him. we’d assumed we weren’t going to see him. my mother was convinced of this. i’d happened to be coming down the stairs just as he’d gotten to the front door. i let him in the house. he looked broken. i’d never seen him like that before. i’d never seen him as weak. i knew he was, but i’d never seen it. i stopped hating him that day. ironically, that’s the best christmas present he could’ve given me.
sixteen. what is your most terrible memory? playing with the boys in my adolescence.
seventeen. if you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? why? if you count taking a month off to go on a road trip of the southeastern coast as changing life, then yes, i guess. otherwise, no.
eighteen. what does friendship mean to you? listening, laughing, leaning and letting one lean. just being there… good AND bad.
nineteen. when did you last cry in front of another person? by yourself? yesterday. today.
twenty. your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. after saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. what would it be? why? the bulletin board of pictures of my older brother that mom and i made for his memorial here. because that’s pretty much all i have left of him.
what would your answers be?